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2010q3 GGCI Newsletter

The 2010q3 edition of the GottaGettaCoach! newsletter is now on-line at: http://www.ggci.com/newsletter/GGCI-2010q3.pdf.

  • The Botany of Self-Doubt • Topic: Fear and Courageousness •  Subject: What to do when self-doubt strikes and how to manage it more effectively.
  • The ABCs of Good Employees…& Bad Bosses • Topic: Leadership Development •  Subject: Why “A-players hire A-players; B-players hire C-players” is misguided, at best, and downright inflammatory, at worst.
  • What Job Would Make You Happy? • Topic: Career Development •  Subject: Time for a change? Try this visualization exercise to figure out where you should go next with your career.
  • A Noun Called ‘Happiness’ • Topic: Personal Fulfillment •  Subject: A simple way to ‘tune in’ to more happiness.
  • On Being Fully Present • Topic: Personal Development •  Subject: A quick set of five tweets about the concept of being Fully Present.
  • It’s “Nuts” Trying to Get Your Unmet Needs Met at Work • Topic: Personal/Professional Development •  Subject: It really is. So here’s how to get those unmet needs met elsewhere.
  • LeadershipHaiku • Topic: Leadership Development • Subject: More // Leadership coaching / in seventeen syllables / for busy bosses. //
  • Clean Hands Clear Conscience • Topic: Personal/Professional Development •  Subject: Researchers report some interesting new findings about the benefits of washing one’s hands.

As always, questions, comments – and suggestions – are welcomed.

Enjoy~ – bz

P.S. If you’re interested in learning how coaching might help you or your staff, phone (847-291-9735) or email (info@ggci.com) to schedule an exploratory phone conversation.

P. P.S.  The GGCI Newsletter Archives are at: www.ggci.com/newsletter.

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Clean Hands Clear Conscience

This in from Science magazine: Researchers from the University of Michigan report that washing one’s hands after decision-making helps lessen the cognitive (postdecisional) dissonance of that decision. (Cognitive dissonance is that uncomfortable tension caused by our conscience second-guessing the decisions we make.)

Per researchers Spike W. S. Lee and Norbert Schwarz from the Department of Psychology, University of Michigan:

“After choosing between two alternatives…postdecisional dissonance was eliminated by cleaning one’s hands. Physical cleansing seems to more generally remove past concerns, resulting in a metaphorical “clean slate” effect.”

What’s interesting here, aside from the obvious good news to soap companies, is that while prior research has shown that washing one’s hands helped reduce cognitive dissonance after making difficult moral decisions, this research shows that washing one’s hands also helps reduce one’s cognitive dissonance after making nonmoral (neither moral nor immoral) decisions, as well. The washing of your hands acts to clear your conscience!

So, the next time you start second-guessing yourself, or are feeling like you have to overly justify to yourself why you decided as you did, stop…and go clean your hands.

Your conscience will likely thank you.

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Twitter Art: @DeborahH

Apropos of nothing, I just wanted to show this really cool background image from the Twitter account of one of my @LeadershipHaiku buddies in Germany, Deborah Hartmann Preuss.

The image is a collage she made in art school, from New Yorker magazine covers, about work-life balance. Nice. Very nice, indeed!

Turns out that Deb is a professional coaching colleague, too. And a CTI-trained one, at that. Just. Like. Me.

Small world, huh?!

Deb’s contact information:

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2010q2 GGCI Newsletter

The 2010q2 edition of the GottaGettaCoach! newsletter is now on-line at: http://www.ggci.com/newsletter/GGCI-2010q2.pdf

  • Levels of Success • Topic: Editor’s Note •  Subject: It’s rarely an all-or-none sort of thing
  • How to Get Happier • Topic: Personal Development •  Subject: Five how-to’s to incorporate into your daily living
  • LeadershipHaiku • Topic: Leadership Development • Subject: My latest side-project — it’s well-worth a look-see if I do say so myself!
  • Assessing Your Leadership Capacity • Topic: Leadership Development • Subject: Foundational concepts for expanding your Leadership reach and impact
  • A “Tweet” to Start Your Day • Topic: Personal Development •  Subject: Some Morning Thoughts courtesy of my Twitter-stream
  • Tylenol for Social Pains?! • Topic: Fear and Courageousness •  Subject: Acetaminophen — it’s not just for headaches anymore!
  • GGCI News from Last Quarter • Topic: News of Note • Some GottaGettaCoach! highlights from 2010q1
  • Name it; Frame it; then, Claim it • Topic: Job Search Improvements •  Subject: An interviewees guide to the Inner-Game of powerful interviewing

As always, questions, comments – and suggestions – are welcomed.

Enjoy~ – bz

P.S. If you’re interested in learning how coaching might help you or your staff, phone (847-291-9735) or email (info@ggci.com) to schedule an exploratory phone conversation.

P. P.S. The GGCI Newseltter Archives are located at : www.ggci.com/newsletter. And please feel free to “share this” this newsletter with those in your network who might appreciate it. Just click on the link below.

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Telephone-as-Panacea … NOT!

  • Story One: Telephone-as-Panacea … NOT! 

    In Connecticut, “two suspects called a bank ahead of time and told an employee to get a bag of money ready. A man and a 16-year-old boy arrived ten minutes later” … and were promptly arrested! (More: http://www.nbc-2.com/Global/story.asp?S=12201285.) 

  • Story Two: Telephone-as-Panacea … NOT! 
    In a seemingly unrelated story — that actually IS related under the category of, “Huh?!” – an arrested 29-year-old used her “one phone call” to call 9-1-1 to report that she was being held against her will (“trapped”) in a Naperville, Illinois, police station! (Trapped. Arrested. Semantics. Just semantics!) She was charged with making a false 9-1-1 report as well as what got her arrested in the first place … refusing to pay a $6.60 cabfare. (More: http://www.nbcchicago.com/news/local-beat/Woman-to-911-Im-Trapped-in-Jail-89024737.html.) 

I think I’ll stick to email and Twitter today! 

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Who Motivates YOU?

In a recent USA TODAY Snapshots poll, the following question was asked: “What primary motivation does your employer provide?”

The results:

  • 47% cited “Nothing” as the Top Motivator provided by their employer.
  • 19% cited “Challenging assignments” as the Top Motivator provided by their employer.
  • 14% cited “Flexible work hours” as the Top Motivator provided by their employer.
  • 10% cited “Increased compensation” as the Top Motivator provided by their employer.

Based on the fact that almost half the people surveys said that their employer provided NOTHING by way of motivation, you might think that this is absolutely horrifying! And maybe it is.

But maybe it isn’t.

Is it really an employer’s JOB to motivate employees? I don’t think so. A job IS what a job IS. If an employee finds the work meaningful, then great!  But while “challenging assignments,” “Flexible work hours,” and “Increased compensation” are all fine and good, I believe that it’s each employee’s responsibility to motivate him/herself.

Now a strong Leader may want to identify what motivates his/her employees. And given the chance to provide more meaningful work to employees is rarely (ever?) a BAD thing. But let’s stop delegating the responsibility to our employers – or our friends, or our colleagues, or our significant others … or whomever! – to “motivate” us. That’s no one’s job but our own.

Period. Paragraph. Thank-you-very-much.

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Based on a Dice Salary survey of 16,908 technology workers. Margin of error +/- 1%.

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"If you were an inanimate object…"

I was struck by a recent question posed on LinkedIn by someone named Dave Maskin, who asked: “If you were an inanimate object, what inanimate object would you be?” Here are some excerpts of answers that people posted:

  • I think I’d be a sharp pencil. - Mary Lascelles
  • I would be a wire! – Sahar Andrade
  • A beautiful sculpture – Christine Heuber
  • I would be a cold fusion plant that would forever deliver more power than there is the universe! – Ronny Warelius
  • A one dollar bill so I could travel the world making simple wishes come true.- Todd Kramer
  • I’d want to be a song for every occasion. – Ryan Edwards
  • I’d be a “pet rock.” – Judith Angell
  • A “Zero” it adds to whatever it gets associated but yes post not pre!!! - Anupma Sancha
  • I’d be a shiny black grand piano so that (almost assuredly) those who would play me would be expert pianists and I could produce beautiful music. - Julie Radachy 
  • A pair of walking boots… – Richard Derwent Cooke
  • A global bridge … bringing people, places, cultures and business together. – Arran Jesson
  • A jet-black Les Paul guitar, with dials to 11 – Martin Roche
  • I think WATER, even if you call it inanimate, it means LIFE to me………. – Bhalchandra Pai
  • a cruise ship. imagine travelling to all those wonderful places and to have so many happy people for company. – Sayeed Cassim
  • A bookcase. I love books, therefore I would be filled with something I love. – Elaine Bloom
  • A candlestick. – Mark Porter
  • My manager. (Alright, I’m kidding but you get the point.) – Mark Strauss
  • The alphabet. Then others could use me to answer your question. – Randy Ballard

As for me, I think if I were an inanimate object, the inanimate object would be would be … Fred the Rock! (Read Fred’s story at www.ggci.com/fred/.) How about you?!

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Image Source: cheerfulmonk.com

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Science and Buddhism

According to the United Airlines in-flight magazine, “Researchers at Merck and the Mind & Life Institute are using brain imaging to study the physiological differences in Buddhist monks. The goal? To see if meditation can increase the efficacy of neurological drugs.” Fits perfectly with the vision of the Institute: “To establish mutually respectful working collaboration and research partnerships between modern science and Buddhism — two of the world’s most fruitful traditions for understanding the nature of reality and promoting human well-being.”

The Dalai Lama is on-board with this, too, it seems. According to the Mind & Life web site: “The Dalai Lama has always shown a strong mechanical aptitude and a keen personal interest in the sciences. He has said that if he were not a monk, he would have liked to have been an engineer.”

Who knew?! I surely didn’t.

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Tylenol for SOCIAL Pains?!

Tylenol As reported at PsychCentral.com, “A provocative new research study investigates the possibility that over-the-counter pain relief drugs may be helpful for treatment of depression and anxiety.” Yes, University of Kentucky research psychologist C. Nathan DeWall has shown that acetaminophen isn’t just for physical aches and pains — it works with the pain of social rejection, as well. According to the research report:

“…findings suggest that at least temporary mitigation of social pain-related distress may be achieved by means of an over-the-counter painkiller that is normally used for physical aches and pains…. “Furthermore, many studies have shown that being rejected can trigger aggressive and antisocial behavior, which could lead to further complications in social life…. If acetaminophen reduces the distress of rejection, the antisocial behavioral consequences of rejection may be reduced as well.”

Keeping in mind that long-term use of acetaminophen has also been linked to serious liver damage, the implications of these initial findings are still quite fascinating. —– Image Source: http://www.wlcntv.com

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